In whole process, coach the teacher encourages him to undertake differentiating an analysis to the practical capacity of oneself and other. Such as is punctual, clean, consecution, courteous, assiduous etc is the active capacity that him place that Xiaoxiao sees has, and obedient, patient, association, amiable, accredit, frankness is the ability that he is had originally and does not have very good expression. Conflict is companionate people case is almost opposite. This kind is differentiated, divisional before making Xiaoxiao sees he emphasizes overly one part and of ability of the one part after negligence improper, also see oneself gave in achievement respect pass much attention and ignored oneself body, psychology, society, spirit the better balance of each levels, this also is oneself and associate people the germ seat that produces human conflict.
Xiaoxiao changes customary association pattern, and of short duration does not go criticize chummery fellow student looking in him is inactive behavior, just urge the positive action that they appear, even if those go to look in small desolate,be so negligible act, be like talking light tone a few, show courtesy and the attention to other. Then, in such active human and interactive process, the manner of small desolate oneself and classmates produced change gradually.
On this foundation, coach what the teacher discusses a target what to can make extend —— part ground to abandon his together with Xiaoxiao again is punctual, assiduous, let the life have air of a few leisure beyond, as some more as the classmate relaxed communication; Understand the significance that association grows to oneself, break right as implicative as association and the compulsory fear that come; Enlarge oneself eye shot, expand the capacity of oneself, seek in the body, psychology, society, spirit the better balance of each levels.
On the foundation of the capacity that have in him understanding and expands ceaselessly, study anew angle undertakes assessment afresh, conformity gives active psychological pattern, make Xiaoxiao answered the question that encounters in human relation and development successfully thereby.



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